Step into the shadows this Halloween as Life Itself becomes Death Itself. 🎃
📍 Brooklyn | Location revealed day of
🎟️ Free RSVP | Free Open Bar | Free Snacks | Doors Do Not Close
Yes, actually free. No cover. Open Bar. No catch. At Life Itself, we choose abundance. Brought to you by a team with over 15 years in hospitality, Life Itself Events are designed with care, safety, and unforgettable detail.
👻 What to Expect
🍸 Open Bar – drinks flowing all night, always free
🍕 Pizza & Snacks – fuel for your midnight adventures
🎟️ Raffle & Costume Contest – win prizes + cash for the best looks
🎃 Pumpkin Carving – spooky creations at your fingertips
🍬 Candy Everywhere – trick, treat, and indulge
🔮 Play Spaces & Integrations – play supplies provided as well as a Sapphic only play space
🎶 DJ Sets & Performances – music that keeps you moving ‘til sunrise
⚡ Activations & Surprises – unexpected moments around every corner
📝 RSVP & Play Space Access
RSVPs to Life Itself are free, but you still need to request one. We’ll approve requests until we hit capacity, so claim yours early. While everyone can RSVP and join the party, play spaces are not open to everyone. Entry to play is protected through a Vibe Check with our Guardians (look for the glowing armbands). Guardians check for things like sobriety, intent, and ability to consent. Sometimes they’ll say “tonight’s not your night,” and that’s okay because rejection is never personal. The Vibe Check means the event stays open and abundant like typical nightlife, while play spaces stay intentional, safe, and joyful.
🎭 Dress Inspo
It’s Halloween — so any costume goes. Go full spooky, sexy, or silly, or lean into dark glamour: gothic lace, skeleton chic, blood-red accents, eerie elegance, or campy horror. From vampires to villains, angels to glitter ghouls — just come dressed to haunt.
🪪 Event Check-In
Please have your RSVP ticket confirmation and valid 21+ ID ready at the door. This helps us keep entry smooth and seamless — thanks for your cooperation!
🛏️ Play Spaces & Etiquette
Play Spaces at Life Itself are designated areas for intimacy, exploration, and connection. They are optional, consent-based environments where guests can engage sexually or sensually if they choose, always within a culture of respect and care. Before play, take a moment to discuss STI status, boundaries, and desires openly. Always ask for consent before any physical touch, whether that’s holding a hand, kissing, or inviting someone to play. Play supplies are provided, and we ask that you help keep the space clean by using the bins for wrappers, cups, and tissues.
Throughout the night, Guardians in glowing armbands will be present to support you, answer questions, and help maintain safety. If you ever feel uncomfortable or need assistance, please approach a Guardian immediately. No concern is too small. To report anything after the event, email consent@lifeitselfevents.com.
💄 Amenities & Abundance
Beyond the free bar and snacks, we’ve designed the space with little luxuries to keep you feeling your best all night. Explore our theme-changing mirrors and makeover area, unwind in the massage section, and take comfort knowing our bathrooms are fully stocked with tampons, pads, and other essentials. You’ll also find a vanity with makeup, mascara, and remover wipes so you can refresh anytime.
📍 Event Info
The exact address will be shared the day of the event.
Doors remain open all night, with security stationed at the entrance to ensure a safe and seamless experience.
🚗 Transportation & Guest List
We want everyone to get home safely and comfortably. Women may request an Uber voucher by texting our Life Itself Concierge at (845) 853-2149 (subject to availability). At the end of the night, security will also lead a group subway walk at 4:15AM, escorting guests to the nearest station together.
👉 Life Itself is not like any event you’ve been to before.
We are building a new cultural norm: multidimensional events with play, abundance, and consent at the center. Whether you’re here to dance, carve pumpkins, make friends, or step into the play space; you belong.
Welcome to Life Itself. 🎃